Women, Money, and Lust

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A Man’s World
Intro

We are living in a world where women constantly sexualize conversations with other men and try their best to make sure a man is trying to hit on them. We are living in an era where women get suspicious for no reason, try to make themselves victims, or make sure they serve their little egos. In this article, I’m gonna tell you about my experiences as a man in a world where women constantly try to make themselves victims.

Tribeca Case

So here’s the thing: in Mauritius, you have Tribeca Mall. A really good mall with a food court where you can sit and eat. I really liked meat-stuffed farathas there. I would go either in the morning just to grab some or around noon to have a good lunch.

And here I am, having my lunch as always. I left the mall and headed toward my apartment, which is roughly 2.5 km away. And then I see a woman about 20 to 30 meters away from me, walking in the same direction as me. What I dislike the most as a man is seeing a woman in front of me, meters away. You ask me why? Even if I’m a good person, genuinely minding my own business and just trying to get home, these types of women will try their best to convince their rotten brains that a man is somehow following them, even if the direction of your house and the route are the same as the woman’s.

So this woman checks me like 5 or 6 times, and I wonder why. I slow down, look around, get my phone out, and just stay there for like 2 to 4 minutes to make sure she continues walking and doesn’t think I am a creep, because the only thing I need is to get home.

And then workers from a nearby construction site joined my pace. So from the perspective of a woman 20 meters away, we are like hungry dogs trying to mercilessly eat her ass. Although it wasn’t like this at all. I was busy thinking about getting home, while the construction workers, who never in their lives speak Creole, French, or English because they are from Malaysia, Thailand, and China, were busy with their own stuff. And then she looks back again and gets to the opposite side of the road because she feels insecure that something might happen.

On top of all of that, the construction workers are 1.5 meters in height, I’m 1.78 meters, and the woman is 2 meters tall. Who’s gonna even try it? I swear to God, no one was interested in her, and she just made a victim out of herself.

Moral of the story: no matter how beautiful or handsome you are, there will always be people who don’t care and who are too busy to notice you or interact with you. From the perspective of their lives, you are just another NPC. So stop, as a woman, trying to find excuses to sexualize every situation in your life.

Money

The #1 mistake you can make is telling a random woman you just met how much money you currently have. A man’s peace comes when he says he doesn’t have any. I swear to God. Even if money is pouring out of your pockets, don’t tell anybody and just say you are broke. The moment you tell people you have money, they will try to get a portion of it.

Let me tell you from my own experience: there was a woman I got connected with in the past who clearly saw my name on Telegram and WhatsApp, so she googled me and found where I work. She calculated how much I earned herself based on some available metrics, and then asked me, “Hey, I saw you have this position. How much do you make?” I said, of course, it’s none of your business, so she started giving me some stupid options and telling me that a man is a man and that telling her wouldn’t hurt anybody.

The moment you reveal the numbers, you reveal a treasure to gold diggers or miners. The woman you try to date, if she finds out, will propose meeting you somewhere expensive where she couldn’t afford going without you. They will use you for new experiences. I swear to God, I had women who would secretly dislike me but agree to go with me to fucking KFC because they were hungry at that time and just needed to use someone to fill their stomachs. I stopped and said no. Even if it’s KFC, I’m done. You cannot use me.

Remember: a man’s peace starts the moment he makes others believe he is broke. You can have all the money in the world, but make sure you have peace with yourself.

I’m Like a Mountain
I’m a Fortress
Lust

A man’s lust is a dangerous tool that can be used against him. Not many men can control it because it’s lust. But a man who has both money and lust is in a much more dangerous position.

If women around you identify you as a fat-purse man, and if they can’t get you into a relationship, they will try to use your lust against you. I had cases where I would refuse dating simply because I didn’t like a woman, and then she would try to mention that I can have “that” if I pay her for one hour. I said, “But you mentioned you are not one of them, right?” Turns out, I was talking to another night butterfly. I think in this century, marrying an alien from outside planet Earth would make more sense. With these types of women, we are not going anywhere.

A man’s peak of lust feelings starts around 15 and fades around 25. During this period, try to make sure you don’t bust yourself financially and physically because of it. I know you cannot escape it, but do not spend too much time on it. Do not spend too much money on emotions. Money has seasonality, so try to make sure you invest it instead. God watches. He knows. He analyzes what you are spending. If the list of groceries is wrong according to God, you are done. Plug in your common sense too. You need it.

Conclusion

A dangerous world a man lives in. He creates, he builds, but others don’t recognize it. They turn everything against him. This is a man’s world.

I need you to focus on yourself instead and quit doing shit stuff. You get this life once. After that, God knows what might happen.

Thank you for reading, and see you in the next article on my website.

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